Relationship Wednesday! How Do You Feel About Your Partner Having The Opposite Sex As Best Friend

Relationship Wednesday!

Relationship Wednesday! How Do You Feel About Your Partner Having The Opposite Sex As Best Friend

Hello Everyone!

How are we all doing this beautiful Wednesday morning.

We must agree that when it comes to relationship, there are lots of things to consider and one has to ask and answer some of these questions.

One of the probable reasons why relationships end is because of of the kind of friends our partners have and most likely because of the gender as well.

By nature, humans are made to feel sexually attached to the opposite sex and it usually starts from friendship.

With that in mind though, there are cases where this could work out well and the two people involved would likely keep it on friendship level.

The question of today is how comfortable will you be with that kind of situation?

Will you be okay if your partner’s best friend is the opposite sex?

Knowing that best friends talk abut everything and hang out everytime, is that something you will be willing to accept in your relationship?

It’s up to you now.

Comment your answers below.


  1. Am against it like kilode ni .. I no what I can do if am the opposite sex she’s having as friend and I know as street be now 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️ So am not in support ooo!!!

  2. For me am not in support for her keeping a male friend as partner except we are married but if we are still dating, I’ll tell her that I don’t like the way they are too close.
    Who know what might happen
    To avoid hearing it is the devil handwork.

  3. I don’t think it’s a good idea because along the line they will develop feelings for each other,when issues arise he will be confused who to discuss it with (myself or his female bestie), if we are having a discussion and a private topic he hasn’t told me about comes up and I’m lost I will feel he prefers sharing it with his bestie and that will be an issue. Having the opposite sex as a bestie sometimes brings about jealousy, lack of trust and conflicts in the relationship, divide attention…My take on this is a no no

  4. Trust is everything, she can have an opposite sex as a bestie , if there’s trust there’s actually nothing to fear about

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  5. I personally believe its okay to have other female friends. But if we are dating, then I’m ur bestie , Periodttt!!!

  6. It depends if ur husband or boyfriend is a guy of good character who is loyal and trustworthy. Then it’s okey. Having friends both female and male friends outside the relationship is quite normal and common for many couples

  7. It is never a good idea to allow your partner have an opposite sex best friend. No matter the high level of trust you have for your partner, as long as an opposite sex best friend comes into the picture something must definitely go wrong. Your best friend is supposed to be your partner. No matter how secretive you might be. Imagine having a fight with my partner and I just cannot make peace with him until I meet my so called best friend to give me an advice on what to do. It doesn’t make any sense to me.


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