Question Of The Day: Your Partner Of 2 Years Just Told You He/She Has A 1 year Old Baby, What Would You Do?

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Your Partner Of 2 Years Just Told You He/She Has A 1 year Old Baby, What Would You Do?

This is a tough one, don’t you agree? But these things happen everyday to different people.

So lets just say that you find yourself in this kind of situation, what would be your reaction? What will be your decision?

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While thinking about the answer, let’s not forget that this partner of yours has been awesome and you love and care for that person but unfortunately made a mistake.

Your partner was open enough to have told you about it and pleading for your forgiveness, what will you?

Drop your answers in the comment section below. I’m looking out for the best answer.

16 COMMENTS

  1. I am going to end the relationship due to the following reasons:
    1. He had a baby during the relationship and did not see a reason to tell. The fact that he had a baby is not the issue but the fact that he did not tell me. If he had told me when he impregnated someone I would have been angry obviously but I would never tell him to have the child aborted. He would still have the child and it would have increased the trust o had in him. So the fact that he did not tell me means there was no trust in our relationship and it is trust and understanding that keeps a relationship going.
    2. Him being someone that did not tell me he had a child for that long may even mean he still has some secret I don’t know about and I don’t feel safe with that type of person so it is better if I leave the person

  2. I’d get angry at first but still wouldn’t leave the relationship. I’d rather take the child like mine and take care of him or her like my child.

  3. I am going to leave him because for him to do something like that it means that there is no trust. 2 years is just too long for me. There is no excuse that can justify what he did. It means he impregnated a woman 3 months into our relationship he should have at least told me I can’t say the woman should abort it because I am also a woman.i would only be angry and continue with our relationship. But 2 years before you realized that you had to tell me is a no. It means he would have other things he is not telling me about and relationships are meant to be built on trust so I am going to leave him because I don’t feel like I can trust him

  4. Hmmmm, i would first ask her how the drama happened if i havent satisfied her want in anything she demand from me. Then i would ask her who the father of the kid is. And she must tell me the reason why she did such things.. Making the change from being a couple to being parents isn’t easy. You’re probably thinking about how it will change your life and your relationship with each other.

    It’s a good idea to talk to each other about your feelings and any anxieties you have about the future, including:

    your hopes
    your fears
    your expectations about life with your baby
    what kind of parents you want to be
    how you can support each other..
    At the first place i would be very sad and Mad at her, Well I can only say nobody is above mistakes I would just accept the karma and move on with her including the kid like nothing happen and the mistake must not repeat itself again..

  5. O mad ooo… Truth been told I will leave the relationship.. First she lied to me for over a year.. Secondly she wasn’t faithful.. If she could cheat on you and lie to you for that long then I guess she can do more.. I would have forgiven her if she said it earlier.. But why wait for that long remember she was pregnant for 9month and the baby is 1 year.. That means she lied close to 2 years.. Which was the duration of our relationship.. Which simply means she lied throughout the relationship.. So I’m out

  6. Is depends on the way I’ll use and find out
    If she told me by herself
    I’ll take
    Cause as far as there is love
    There must be forgiveness

    But if I found it out from outside
    I will be angry with her at first, for not informing me, but that day I’ll forgive her, cause she’s still my partner.

  7. At first I would Pause and order for a Medium Origin Bitter to settle down the para in my body but for the fact that she spoke out the Truth herself fine I would embrace the child bring him in and The same way we treating our own kids would also be extended to him too….THERE’S NOTHING NEW UNDER DIS SUN OR EARTH….She loves her Man and doesn’t want to lose her relationship that’s why she told him…..There are others who wouldn’t……..😁😁abeg my mouth don dey pain me 🕊🕊🕊

  8. If my partner of 2 years told me he has a 1year old baby I would be very hurt and probably not communicate with him for weeks, even months cause he lied and kept the secret from me and we might eventually break up cause if he can keep that kind of secret and not let me be aware of it,he can do something more heartbreaking to me but like they say “love is blind” if I truly love him I might just have to put my pride aside and accept him and the child cause nothing can be undone again but it’s really hard to accept him back in this type of situation cause you dont know what else he might be hiding

  9. Seriously the matter is deep ooooo.. . firstly she shouldn’t have kept the secret for that long but the deed has been done…like we already have in the summary ahead….if there is love in-between and he really wants her in her arms…that shouldn’t be an issue…… forgiveness is one of the key to love….so taking the child as yours will make her love for you more deep and unpriceable

  10. 2. This will leave me thinking first, this means she was pregnant before we started dating and she gave birth while we were dating without me knowing?. I am left with no choice than to question her love for me if they were real in the first place and we are DONE.

  11. This will leave me thinking first😂, this means she was pregnant before we started dating and she gave birth while we were dating without me knowing?. I am left with no choice than to question her love for me if they were real in the first place and we are DONE.

  12. This will leave me thinking first, this means she was pregnant before we started dating and she gave birth while we were dating without me knowing?. I am left with no choice than to question her love for me if they were real in the first place and we are DONE.

  13. 2.
    This will leave me thinking first, this means she was pregnant before we started dating and she gave birth while we were dating without me knowing?. I am left with no choice than to question her love for me if they were real in the first place and we are DONE.

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